How our food culture in Trinidad and Tobago can offer healing
Originally written for Namaste Caribbean. All photos by Candice Alaska. Do not replicate without permission.
“Food rituals are intergenerational, just as trauma is. So perhaps traditions of eating hold the key to healing emotional injuries.”
A few weeks ago, I made friends with someone in the line by the mechanic while waiting to get an inspection done. If you know how long car inspections in Trinidad tend to take, then you know how much time I had on my hands. One thing led to another, and the topic of conversation eventually landed on– where it have to dine in Trinidad that serves local food?
We have a very rich food culture in Trinidad and Tobago, and it’s one of the things that we most pride ourselves on, but finding good dine-in places that serve our food isn’t easy.
Eventually, after a lot of research, I ended up finding a great dine-in restaurant in Price Plaza, Chaguanas, that serves local food, called River Lime.
For those not familiar with the language, a ‘lime’ in Trinidad is like a gathering, although much more informal than the word ‘gathering’ may connote. To lime is basically to hang out with somebody or in a group, and a ‘river lime’ is, as you can probably guess, a lime that takes place by a river.
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“Food-sharing is an important way we relate to one another in Trinidadian culture.
A river lime is a cultural experience. People tend to carry pots and cook food by the river. Sometimes you make friends with people by the river and end up liming and sharing food with them, too.
Food-sharing is an important way we relate to one another in Trinidadian culture. In a lot of Trinidadian households, you don’t leave without at least eating something. Many of our traditions involve sharing food and our relationships are often created and sustained over food. Food is how we remember many of our relatives expressing their care. Like my aunt who makes bake and salt fish all the time now, because I told her one time that I really like the way she makes it. These little gestures say, I want you to be fed and happy. You are cared for.
We can’t underestimate the significance of food in our relationships.